A story out of La Crosse Wisconsin has gone viral this week. WKTB's Jennifer Livingston received a hurtful letter from a viewer pointing out flaws in her physical appearance. Here is the video:
Jennifer's response to this letter is the epitome of class and courage. In her response, she states that as public figure, she is susceptible to a certain amount of public scrutiny and criticism. She mentions her "think skin" in potentially hurtful situations, but this was one critique she couldn't brush off. What this man says about Livingston's personal appearance is not only inappropriate but cruel.
In Livingston's response, she discusses how a mean nature is not innate, but learned. It is the responsibility of parents to teach their children to be kind. She calls upon parents to lead by example. Lead them down the path of kindness and tolerance, not that of hate.
Bullying in a serious issue in today's society. Children, teens and even adults have taken their own lives as a result of being bullied. A change needs to happen and it starts with us. Be conscious about your influence. Whether you realize it or not, you are influencing someone. Think before you speak.
One phrase that Livingston said during her response has really resonated with me. "The cruel words of one, are nothing compared to the shouts of many." This is an inspired thought. Here Livingston is saying that we can make a difference and end bullying once and for all. As a whole, we can be louder and more profound in our response to bullying.